Hi everyone, today I want to talk about a tough but pressing topic that many of us would rather not face— the real experiences of children brainwashed after being exposed to certain information. From recent reports and experiences of friends, this situation is becoming alarmingly frequent and truly deserves the attention of us parents! Here are some points I’d like to share:
- The Source of Brainwashing
- Social media and the digital world are primary channels through which children receive information. Many misleading messages and extreme views infiltrate children’s minds through catchy videos and posts.
- The influence of classmates and friends at school also plays a huge role in disseminating improper viewpoints among children.
- Trust Breakdown
- It hurts to see children beginning to doubt their parents, thinking we are “outdated” after being exposed to such information.
- A single caring remark from a parent might be interpreted as “opposition” or “control,” sparking family crises.
- Communication with Children
- Re-establishing communication with children is a challenge we must face. I suggest parents avoid hastily rebutting their children’s viewpoints but instead try to understand their thoughts.
- Guide them to explore problem diversity, helping them appreciate the importance of different perspectives.
- Creating a Safe Environment
- Create a safe environment for children where they can freely express their thoughts without being suppressed or denied.
- Learning and Reflecting Together
- Encourage kids and parents to learn together, discussing trending topics to foster mutual understanding and trust.
- Self-Reflection
- As parents, we should also reflect on whether we sometimes overlook children’s feelings and whether our attitudes toward problems are too harsh.
- Seeking Professional Help
- If the situation is serious, I recommend seeking professional psychological help. Listening to a third-party voice may make it easier for children to accept changes.
From my personal experience, when I noticed my child responding with extreme rhetoric to my concerns, my heart truly ached. However, argumentation is not a solution; mutual understanding and support between parents and children is the key to rebuilding relationships.
You might have different opinions on this topic. Parents with similar experiences are welcome to share your stories in the comments section. Let’s grow through these challenges together.